Because of the Covid-19 pandemic, the government at all levels wants to and has started the process of “contact tracing.”
I urge everyone to go to this link and please read it carefully and completely.
We are about to lose many of our liberties and ONCE it starts, it will be nearly impossible to stop it.
The danger of the government making lists of its citizens and non-citizens is that once they have our information, they can use it any way they wish.
Once you get on a list, it will be nearly impossible to get removed if you were somehow incorrectly put on that list. Furthermore, they could invent lists, like those who have been convicted of a crime, say shoplifting, not being able to enter a store, or convicted (even wrongfully) of some type of sex crime and prohibited from being around children (even your own family).
Here is an excerpt:
To be clear, those who have completed “contact tracer training” confirm that you will be compelled to self-isolate; one way or another. If you have children and can’t prove that you’re properly “distancing” yourself (even though children are virtually immune to COVID-19), social services will intervene to “care” for your children while you isolate.
Heaven forbid, they could start grouping us according to our religious beliefs and decide which religions could not gather together, have services, etc. Or the party in power could decide to ostracize those who don’t think the same way they do, believe in the same causes, etc.
Farfetched, it seems so, but did you ever think we would have government agencies deliberately lying to entrap citizens to change the results of a legitimate election?
It was a beautiful spring morning in 1993 and I was headed from my home in St. Bernard Parish (Louisiana) to my family’s office in Metairie. After turning right on to Franklin Ave. to head to I-10W, I was coming up to a red light, but before I got to it and needed to completely stop, it changed to green.
There was a van in the left lane that had stopped and I noticed a young black teenager standing on the neutral ground (median), but he was just standing there. The van seemed about to move and so since it appeared clear, I started to accelerate to go through the intersection.
Instantly, without any warning, the young boy ran in front of my car and I slammed on the brakes, heard the screeching of my tires, and then BOOM as he rolled up to the windshield and then back off onto the pavement.
I will NEVER forget that awful noise of hitting that young boy.
Of course, I stopped and started to get out just as a lady in front of me stopped and got out of her car, and ran to the young boy. She was a nurse and she took control of the situation while we waited for NOPD and the EMTs to come.
Suddenly a crowd started to gather and this was primarily a low-income neighborhood with mostly African-Americans and I thought I was in serious trouble, being a white man that had just hit and injured a young black teenager or possibly killed him.
I knew this neighborhood well because I had built a Shoe Town nearby and in high school, I dated a girl who went to Dominican H.S. and lived only a few blocks from where this happened.
I was seriously shaking, scared for the young boy, and for what was about to happen to me because I was sure I was about to be arrested and brought to jail, one of my worst fears.
A few minutes later the ambulance and NOPD police car arrived and the crowd now was a few dozen people who had come out of their houses to see the commotion.
Thank God, the man driving the van had not driven off because he would later be the reason I was not arrested and taken to jail. He was an older African-American man and he completely corroborated my version of what had happened.
While I was sitting and waiting for the police to arrive I got out my registration, driver’s license, and insurance card. Suddenly, to my horror, I noticed the insurance was a few weeks past the expiration. I had not gotten notice of the renewal like I always did and had not realized the policy had been renewed. But I did not have proof of the new date.
So when the police arrived, one black and one white officer, I handed them my information and told them what had happened. By this time, the EMTs had already put the young boy in the ambulance and headed to the hospital nearby.
The white officer was clearly agitated and when he saw my insurance card had expired, he seemed to get angry and they both headed back to their car to run my plate, driver’s license, etc.
After what felt like hours later (actually just minutes) they came back and the white officer barked “please step out of the car and put your hands in the air,” but the black policeman did not seem to agree with that and told me to stay put.
He had just finished speaking to the van driver and this wonderful man told them that the young boy had been standing on the neutral ground (median) while the light was red, but when it turned green, he suddenly darted out in front of the van. The van had obscured my view and that is why I could not see that he had started to run across the street in front of us. He told the policeman that I had done nothing wrong, that the boy did indeed start to run across after the light changed to green.
To anyone viewing this scene, I was guilty of something because my vehiclehit this young boy, and it appeared I ran a red light and might have been speeding also.
But the van driver insisted that I did not run the red light, that the young boy began to run across when the light changed from red to green.
I don’t know what the nurse saw or told the policemen, but she had covered the boy with a blanket to help keep him from going into shock and did her best to keep him from moving until the EMTs had loaded him onto the gurney and put him in the ambulance. Frankly, I don’t remember if I even ever got her name and contact information, I was so nervous. But God had put her in that spot at just the right time!
Finally, the black officer either overruled or persuaded the white one that I should just be given a ticket for the expired insurance with no other charges. But for about an hour, I was scared to death that I was going to jail and charged with something serious for hitting this young boy.
The young boy had special needs, autistic or otherwise mentally challenged, and had gotten out of his grandmother’s house across the street to go to a local store. Either he got confused when the light changed from red to green or he didn’t even notice, but thankfully the van driver noticed him darting out and didn’t start moving. But it happened so quickly he could not react and blow his horn before I came up and the boy was in front of me.
Thank the Lord that he was not seriously injured, just some scrapes and bruises, but no other injuries.
How does this relate to what happened to George Floyd who was recently killed while being arrested?
Things are NOT always what they appear to be, and if not for the driver of that van on my left, there would have been NO way I could have ever proved that I was not at fault for hitting him.
To everyone else, it seemed I was just a white man speeding through an intersection, not even paying attention to the young boy that was crossing the street. But the van driver knew the facts, that the light was green for me, that his van obscured my view and that the boy had crossed on a green light (red for him).
This is why I have repeatedly said to WAIT for the evidence, that even a video does not show all that happened before what we have been shown over and over since this tragic incident happened.
Justice is usually slow, which is good because if first impressions were used to convict someone, I would have been arrested and charged with hitting a pedestrian in a crosswalk, which is the truth, but did not factor in the actual circumstances of what happened right up to the moment of that horrible moment when I hit that young boy, he rolled up to my windshield and then off onto the pavement because I had slammed on my brakes. I was not at fault, but it surely appeared I was.
This is just one of the many times God has protected me from something serious when I or others could have been seriously injured or killed, such as the Christmas day when my family was rear-ended by a driver that hit us at over 50 mph. Had we been in my car, instead of my wife’s Delta 88, my daughter (sitting in the back seat) would have been killed and the other two of us seriously hurt or killed also.
It is also why I NEVER exceed the speed limit in places where I could hit a pedestrian because had I BEEN speeding, I WOULD have been arrested.
So, I had some tests done last week and one was a CT scan with contrast. I won’t bore you with the details, but this was one of the findings: “Probable anterior cerebral artery aneurysm.”
My primary care physician gets the result and refers me immediately to a neurologist. So what do I do now?
Well, the first is to pray and acknowledge that God is in control and that I am dependent on Him even for my next breath (which we all are, by the way).
Then I called the neurologist and from there it gets confusing. It seems the Doctor is not available, so I need to make an appointment with the Nurse Practioner, his assistant. But I am still confused because I don’t know what to do, go to the hospital, just wait, do some research?
Well, I just waited and did some research, then called my PCP to ask them what the Doctor recommends until I can see the neurologist.
“Don’t do any heavy lifting and don’t drink alcohol” was the response. No, problem, I rarely drink anyway, but I need to mow the lawn and now, that’s not an option until I know more.
Well, today I had my appointment and it seems possible I might not have an aneurysm at all, because CT scans don’t really tell the whole story.
I need to have a CTA scan. CT angiography is a type of medical test that combines a CT scan with an injection of a special dye to produce pictures of blood vessels and tissues in a part of your body. The dye is injected through an intravenous (IV) line started in your arm or hand.
“Treatment for brain aneurysms is more promising than it was several years ago. There are more effective and less- invasive treatment options for patients who in years past may have been told they had inoperable aneurysms. Doctors consider several factors when deciding which treatment option is best for a particular patient. Some factors include patient age, size of aneurysm and location of aneurysm.
So, I am waiting to schedule the CTA scan and TRUSTING God, who has taken very good care of me so far.
“Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice! Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand.
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God;and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” (The New King James Version, (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1982), Php 4:4–8)
“SHHH! Be quiet, they might hear us,” I whispered to Timmy as we huddled in my closet, hiding from our parents.
It was about 6 p.m. Sunday on a fall evening in Old Metairie circa 1961 and I had talked my new friend into pulling a prank on our parents. Mine had put our home up for sale and Timmy’s parents had come by to look at the house. While they were walking around, I had stupidly cooked up this idea it would be fun to hide and then come out after some indeterminate amount of time.
It seemed like a funny idea to an eight-year-old kid at the time and it was years later before I realized how cruel and mean it actually was.
“Jay, I don’t think this is such a good idea,” Timmy said. “I’m gonna get in trouble.”
“Oh, it’ll be okay, we won’t be in here long,” I said.
After what seemed like an eternity, we finally heard voices “Jay, Timmy are you in here?” “Be quiet” I said, “it’s too soon to come out. We need to stay a little longer.”
“Jimmy, I hope they did not go down to the railroad tracks. Jay knows better than that. But maybe we need to walk down there and look for them.” I could hear the fear in my mother’s voice as she and Timmy’s parents continued to walk around the house.
We lived only a block away from the railroad tracks that went through the heart of Old Metairie and there had been myths about little kids kidnapped by the bums riding the rail cars and other such nonsense that parents used to scare their kids to keep them away from the tracks.
So Timmy and I continued to play checkers in my closet. My closet was like my little fort. It was a walk-in with plenty of space, drawers, and cabinets, and I had games, books, and a flashlight so we were all set.
After another 15 minutes or so we heard voices again, “Timmy, Jay, where are you? Are you here?” We could hear footsteps in my room and at one point the closet door almost opened and we were so scared because we KNEW we were really in trouble now and I knew this prank was going to earn me a whipping with the belt.
But suddenly the footsteps turned and retreated and we could hear my father tell my mother that since it was getting dark it was time now to call the Sheriff’s Office.
Well, that was it. As soon as Timmy heard Sheriff’s Office, he said: “I’m scared and I want to get outta here.” He flung open the door and screamed: “Mommy, Daddy, here we are!”
Everyone came running and we met in the den. Timmy’s parents were crying, mine were hopping mad and relieved at the same time.
“Do you know how frightened we were? Whatever possessed you to do such a thing? When I get through with you young man, you won’t be able to sit down for a week!”
And I didn’t!
I never did find out what happened to Timmy, but we didn’t sell the house and I sure hope he did not get in trouble on account of me. After all, it was my fault, my suggestion, and my house.
This incident truly haunted me over the years but it particularly hit home after I was blessed with the birth of my own daughter and realized just how frightened our parents felt that evening.
Most people accuse me now of overthinking things and I would like to believe that stupid choices like this when I was younger influenced me and helped me become wiser as I grew older.
“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD your God is giving you.”—Exodus 20:12 NKJV
“Mr. Culotta, your mother is non-responsive and I need to know if you want me to perform CPR?”
“No doctor, I don’t want you pounding on her chest, she has suffered enough and it is time for her to finally have some peace.”
And with those few words, I had to prepare myself to do the hardest thing I have ever done, to tell my father that his bride of 61+ years was gone and would not be coming home.
I got down on my knees and actually thanked God for finally ending my mother’s suffering that she had endured since a stroke two years prior in 2001 had paralyzed her on one side of her body. She had been unable to take any solid food or drink for over two years and had been kept alive by a feeding tube in her stomach. I could write an entire article about what I learned about feeding tubes and how they can be misused (and were).
It was about 9:00 on Friday morning, June 20, 2003, and my mother had been in the hospital for about a week. Ironically she was supposed to be discharged later that day.
The doctor called me to tell me that while the nurses were preparing the paperwork to discharge my mother, they turned around and just that quickly, she was gone. He wanted to know if I wanted them to try and resuscitate her, but she had a DNR order and she was already so frail and weak that I could not bear the images of them pounding on her chest, breaking ribs to force blood circulation and try and get her heart to start again. Even now, I can’t bear the images in my mind of what she had wasted away to become, from the beautiful, vibrant woman who loved life and enjoyed people and socializing to an invalid who could barely speak and whose main method of communication was by banging her wedding band on the railing of the hospital bed that we had bought for her.
Thankfully my parents had the resources to afford the 24/7 care that she needed with nursing assistants, the electrical pump for the feeding tube that was inserted in her stomach and other numerous medical supplies, including that hospital bed.
The master suite of my parents home was large enough to accommodate the hospital bed and the medical supplies and a sitting area for the caregivers who so lovingly took care of my mother over those two years.
I don’t remember how many times she had been in and out of the hospital over those two years because of pneumonia, infections or her heart problems (she also had atrial fibrillation) but it was hard transporting her because she needed a wheelchair and we had only recently bought a mini-van that was fitted for a handicap ramp and chair-lift. She never got to use that van.
I also prayed that God would give me the strength to say the right words to my dad and to be able to comfort him because he had Alzheimer’s and although he still was physically strong and healthy at 89, his mental faculties were not what they used to be. The nurse assistants/caregivers that we had for my mother at home were doing double duty helping to take care of my dad in helping prepare his meals, driving him around and making sure he took his meds.
I called my sister, Richelle, and we agreed to meet at our dad’s home to deliver the news around 11:00. It was almost an hour drive from my apartment in Kenner to Treasure Isle and almost 40 minutes from my sister’s home in Metairie to Treasure Isle.
Next, I called my dad’s house to inform Staci, the nursing assistant, of the news of my mother’s passing and to make sure she did not tell my dad or drive him to Northshore Regional Medical Center until Richelle and I got there and told him the news ourselves.
As I drove over the I-10 twin span over Lake Pontchartrain, I could just picture my dad breaking down when he heard the news and that would be harder than anything to witness. My parents had grown much closer later in life since they sold the house in Old Metairie and moved permanently to the summer home at 45 Treasure Isle and then later built the dream home at 27 Treasure Isle, my parents’ pride and joy. My dad was a workaholic for most of his life until he “retired” in the mid-90s and stopped commuting every day to the office in Metairie.
Richelle and I drove up at just about the same time and as I put my key in the heavy, leaded-glass door and opened it, I was filled with dread once again. I stepped onto the marble floor and closed the door behind me and we began to walk up the winding stairs. The foyer almost always had this musty smell to it because there was not much circulation and that day was no exception. Even though it has been almost 15 years, I can still feel the sights and smells as if they were happening right now.
I stepped off the last step onto the wooden floor and there was my dad in what seemed an unusually good mood. “Good morning, son. What are you and Richelle doing here? I was just about to leave to go visit your mama at the hospital. She’s supposed to come home today.”
“Daddy, Richelle and I need to talk to you. Let’s go sit on the sofa.”
“Can’t it wait? I slept late today and I want to get to the hospital before it gets any later.”
“Let’s go sit down and talk first.” So we all went over to the large sofa and I sat on one side and Richelle on the other side of him.
I took some deep breaths and prayed I would not break down before getting out what I needed to say. “Daddy, we have some bad news. The doctor called me earlier to tell me that Mother passed away this morning. She just did not have any more strength in her to keep fighting these infections.”
“Oh no, what am I going to do without my mama! My mama!”
My mother’s name was Jeanne but in the later years, my dad had called her “my mama” and it was not because of his Alzheimer’s. It was his term of endearment for her.
Richelle and I just held him while we all wept and I don’t remember for how long, but surprisingly he recovered rather quickly. I think he knew it was her time to go and that she was resting peacefully now.
I was praying silently and thanking God that it had not turned out as badly as I had imagined it would and that she was no longer suffering from the stroke that had reduced her to a pale, frail, bed-ridden invalid two years earlier and that now she was free.
We sat and talked, reminisced and occasionally broke down for about a half hour after that and then we all drove to the hospital to see my mother for the final time before the funeral four days later.
I can’t imagine what it was like to suddenly know that you would never again see someone you had loved for over 61 years. I couldn’t bear to let my dad be alone with his memories in that big house either at night, so I stayed with him for almost two weeks, sleeping on the sofa in the great room, which was right next to the master suite.
Even though there were plenty of beds on the third floor, I didn’t want to be too far away from his bedroom if he needed me in the middle of the night. The house was so big that I might never hear him while I was sleeping in one of the 3½ bedrooms on the third floor. Even though he slept like a log once he went to sleep, I was also nervous that he might hear a noise in the middle of the night and go downstairs to investigate and possibly fall down the stairs.
Your mind can play all kinds of nasty tricks on you at times like this, so I felt it better to play it safe and I was glad I did. It gave us time to spend together, to talk, and even though I don’t remember many specifics about our conversations, I do remember that they were enjoyable and that I learned things I didn’t know before about how my parents met, more about how many times my dad had asked my mother to marry him before she finally said yes (over a dozen!) and the story about the meatballs, that I had heard dozens of times and still never got tired of hearing.
Mother did not know how to cook when they first got married and my dad did. After all, he was an Italian with a Sicilian mama and three sisters. So he did his best to teach her how to cook and one of the first things he taught her, naturally, was to cook meatballs.
One weekend they went on a picnic in City Park and my mother was thrilled to show off her new cooking skills. They spread out the blanket, sat down and my dad couldn’t wait to sink his teeth into one of those tasty meatballs.
The garlic, onions and anise aroma was so inviting, so he grabbed one and pulled it up to his mouth to take a bite. But when he did, it was so tough that he couldn’t bite into it and that’s when his Italian temper took over. He took that meatball and threw it like a baseball and when it hit the ground instead of exploding into a bunch of little meaty pieces, it just bounced and bounced and bounced …
But the lessons were not in vain as my mother did turn out to be a fantastic cook and the hundreds of people who attended my parents’ annual 4th of July party on Treasure Isle over the years will attest to that.
I was so glad to have had that time with him because shortly afterward, my dad’s Alzheimer’s began progressing at an increased rate and he had some behavioral changes that were not pleasant.
But maybe that is for a future installment of The Joyful Christian’s Journey.
After a few of the usual Sunday evening hymns, the church’s pastor once again slowly stood up, walked over to the pulpit, and gave a very brief introduction of his childhood friend. With that, an elderly man stepped up to the pulpit to speak, “A father, his son, and a friend of his son were sailing off the Pacific Coast,” he began, “when a fast approaching storm blocked any attempt to get back to shore. The waves were so high, that even though the father was an experienced sailor, he could not keep the boat upright, and the three were swept into the ocean.”
The old man hesitated for a moment, making eye contact with two teenagers who were, for the first time since the service began, looking somewhat interested in his story. He continued, “Grabbing a rescue line, the father had to make the most excruciating decision of his life….to which boy he would throw the other end of the line. He only had seconds to make the decision.
The father knew that his son was a Christian, and he also knew that his son’s friend was not. The agony of his decision could not be matched by the torrent of waves. As the father yelled out, ‘I love you, son! Continue reading “The Sailor’s Decision”
About five minutes later, my Dad looked at me and asked “do I have any children?”
It had finally arrived, the dreaded question, a variant of “who are you?” I had just made 55 and my dad asked me if he has any children. I explained that I was his son and that he had a daughter also. That same question, with slight variations, came up another 3 or 4 times in our two-hour conversation.
Imagine your father or mother looking at you and not knowing who you are. Even worse, he can’t easily remember his late wife of 61 years, who had passed away 5 years earlier.
This is the tragedy of Alzheimer’s disease, the sixth-leading cause of death in the United States. It gets worse over time and it is fatal. There is no cure at the present time, although there are some current medications that can lessen the symptoms and slow down its progression.
• As many as 5.3 million people in the United States are living with Alzheimer’s.
• Alzheimer’s and dementia triple healthcare costs for Americans age 65 and older.
• Every 70 seconds, someone develops Alzheimer’s.
• The direct and indirect costs of Alzheimer’s and other dementias to Medicare, Medicaid, and businesses amount to more than $148 billion each year.
Please visit the Alzheimer’s Association website and find out valuable information that can help you or a loved-one that is at-risk for this stealth killer. There is a wealth of information here about new treatments that are available, how to spot signs of the disease, tips for caregivers and other valuable information. Please consider donating to help further scientific research that could make this disease one that no one remembers.
That conversation occurred April 2009 and happened only a few more times, thank God. I don’t know what happened, but my dad somehow recovered his ability to recognize me after we were able to move him closer to us when a new assisted living facility opened up in Metairie, LA a few years later. (I first wrote this in April 2009, but it is just as vivid now to me as it was then.)
Treasure the moments you have with your loved ones, especially your parents, because you never know when something will happen that changes the opportunity to communicate with them or even that they are suddenly gone from this earth.
My father passed away from Alzheimer’s Disease in January 2013 after suffering the effects as early as the late 1990s. The effects were subtle and no one in my family really noticed but me, because I worked with him every day. Those of you who have relatives or friends that suffer from this insidious disease know that some people get very good at covering up their dementia, at least in the beginning.
He was a tremendously vibrant man who was self-taught and self-made, not knowing how to slow down except on the weekends when he would suddenly become Jimmy the fisherman. I have some amazing, funny and slightly embarrassing stories about his fishing escapades. But one thing he didn’t do was tell tall tales about the one that got away!
Anyway, after suffering for two years from the effects of a devastating stroke that left her paralyzed on one side of her body and requiring care 24/7, my mother passed away in June 2003 and my dad went downhill really fast. Thank the Lord that my father had been able to build an amazing family business with income that allowed us to have nursing assistants to care for her in her own home where she felt as comfortable as she could be under the circumstances.
I think the hardest thing I ever had to do was to tell my dad that my mother had passed away. She had been in the hospital at the time and it was the first morning that he had not gone to visit her. I will write about that story another time because it is compelling.
He and my mother had been married for over 61 years and she had been his primary caregiver. As if that wasn’t bad enough, Hurricane Katrina hit and destroyed their home two years later in August 2005.
Whatever happened to keeping one’s word, simply because it is the right thing to do?
In today’s climate of trashy television, When Calls The Heart on the Hallmark Channel is a very refreshing show and last Sunday’s episode centered around the railroad’s refusal to honor its contract to construct a depot in Hope Valley because it did not seem to be a profitable investment.
Well, after the mayor and townspeople made their case, the railroad representative wasn’t convinced until one of the young people made a convincing argument at the end. It was heartwarming and genuine, based on principles and honor, not money and profit.
Sometimes it is hard to do the right thing and it costs some serious money and requires hard sacrifices to do so.
A young builder and his partner wanted to get a start building new homes for sale in a really hot market in the early 1980s in an exclusive development that featured a beautiful golf course, clubhouse, condos, and luxury single-family homes in a gated community.
They bought a lot, the young builder designed the home and drew the plans himself, the partner put up the cash (about $35,000) and they got a local bank to fund the construction loan. The home was beautiful and everyone thought it would sell before it was even finished like most of the houses had in that location. However, right before they closed on the lot, someone suggested they buy another lot on the golf course and not the one they had previously been shown. Everyone agreed this was the right thing to do. The only problem was that no one realized at the time the design was wrong for a home that backed up to the golf course.
Only after the house was sold did anyone ever point out that the great-room should have overlooked the golf course, which makes sense of course, but the original lot backed up to woods and that is why the design had the master bedroom and breakfast room in the rear.
The young builder worked very hard to make sure that everything was done just right and every day, he drove over an hour to get to work and over an hour to get home after supervising the various subcontractors.
He even did some of the work himself, including all the finish carpentry. But after the house was nearly finished there were no buyers and the interest payments were beginning to get hard to make because there were some cost overruns due to some changes that were suggested by the real estate agent. Keep in mind that this was during the time of super-inflation and interest rates were around 14% or more.
Soon the cash reserves were almost gone and the bank became very concerned because the construction loan term was about to end and there were no prospects. Things looked very bleak and it looked like it was going to cost another $30,000+ to finish the house, so work was basically stopped. The house was built, just not 100% finished.
Months went by and it appeared bankruptcy was the only option until one day about a week before Christmas the banker called the young builder and said he had a buyer for the house. The builder was thrilled! But it wasn’t good news because the price was for what the bank was owed, which meant the partners would lose their investment plus the amount of money needed to complete the house and pay all the remaining bills, a total of about $65,000 LOSS!
The young builder was very worried. He had only recently been married and had a new baby and did not have anywhere close to that amount of money in savings. Most of the subcontractors and suppliers that he used were companies and people that he had known for many years, some for decades since some were personal friends as well, and he was afraid of damaging those relationships. Another thing that complicated this was that he also worked with and for his father, who was a builder/developer with an excellent reputation.
The banker insisted that the partners accept this offer, threatening to foreclose if they did not. But since the house still needed some work to be finished and bills to be paid, if there were any liens filed by subcontractors or suppliers, the sale could be delayed.
So the young builder decided to contact all the people he owed money to and promised each and everyone that if they would help him and allow the sale to go through without any liens, he would personally guarantee payment, no matter what. Because he had a good relationship with all these people, they agreed and the sale went through.
The young builder had a rough time though and it took over two years to finally pay off all the subs and suppliers, but he did and he continued to do business with all of them for many years afterward.
This might sound like a fictional story, but I assure you, it is not because I am that young builder, and my partner was my brother-in-law. And I have not retold this story to try and build myself up, but to tell you that when you treat people honestly and keep your word, they will do the same.
There was no way that I could knowingly or willingly damage the relationships with subcontractors and suppliers that my father had with some people, that in some cases had existed for decades. Those people trusted my word because of the past relationship I had with them and I was not about to let them down.
I don’t know how I did it. Well, actually I do. It was God and only God that kept me going.
“Have you not known? Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable.
He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might he increases strength.
Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted;
but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength;
they shall mount up with wings like eagles;
they shall run and not be weary;
they shall walk and not faint.”—Isaiah 40:28–31 ESV
I am a follower of Gary DeMar (AmericanVision.org) and have many of his books and DVDs on various topics dealing with Christianity. I met Gary around 2004-2005 at an American Vision Conference (when he was still the president) in Powder Springs, GA and my life has never been the same. The list of speakers that I heard included Dr. Gary North, Dr. Voddie Baucham, Jr., Joseph Farah, and of course Gary DeMar himself. The reason I mention this is that sometimes you hear or read something that challenges long-held beliefs and that conference began a 6-7 year process that radically changed a lot of my beliefs about the end-times and prophecy. More on that in the future. But this article was also one of those moments. I always believed that we should not lie. After all the Bible commands it, right? Well, not so fast!
This is just another reason why Christianity and the Bible are valid because it is God’s story of how He has revealed Himself to us and how we have responded, warts and all. It is not the fairy tale that many try and tell you where all of God’s “heroes” never do anything wrong, never make mistakes. We ALL have sinned and fall short of the Glory of the Lord, and we ALL need the Savior, Jesus Christ. If you are not confident about your eternal destiny and need to know the Gospel (Good News) of Jesus, please leave a comment below (your email will not be displayed) or send me an email to firstname.lastname@example.org. I truly care!